Would you ever stay in an abusive relationship? Or would you leave them and try to forget them?
I recently just read Picture Perfect by Jodi Picoult Cassie is married to a famous actor Alex Rivers, no one suspects that their relationship is abusive. Cassie leaves Alex becouse she is pregant and will not let the baby be harmed. She learns about the true meaning of love and family while she is waiting for the arrival of their child. She learns who to trust and who not to. So would you or wouldn't you?!
That depends am I the abusive one or is she the abusive one. Because if she was, why would I want to stay if she had me on a leash. She tries being "abusive" I'll fix it. But, if I were the abusive one, hide yah kids, hide yah, wifes, hide yah husbands cause everyones getting "hurt" out here.
ReplyDeleteIf I were ever in an abusive relationship I would get out right away. Nothing would hold me back. I would never let that person hurt someone else close to me. I would get out of there fast and move on with my life. No one should ever let someone abuse them, even if they like them for something special. No one deserves to be abused.
ReplyDeleteI personally don't think I would have the strength to stay in an abusive relationship. I absolutely hate the thought of abuse in anyway. That is not how I would want to picture my life. Even though it would probably be hard to get out of I would try my hardest because I would much rather have a happy life.
ReplyDeleteI would never stay in an abusive relationship, I could never let myself stay in something that doesn't make me happy. As conceited as this may sound, If i'm not satisfied why would I say things or do things that would make you happy? Not only is that not fair to me, but it's not fair to you (the boyfriend) either. I couldn't tell someone I loved them if they hit me, I couldn't tell someone I loved them if they didn't show me respect. I'd be lying, and I wouldn't be loyal.
ReplyDeleteAs much as I'd like to say I'd leave, I honestly don't know if I would. If I was truly in love with that person it would just be so hard to leave. There is obviously a reason why they are abusive and I feel like it would be my job, as their significant other, to help them through it and not judge them. All that they want is someone who cares about them and will listen to them and then maybe that will help them to fix their problems and not be abusive anymore.
ReplyDeleteI feel like there is someone out there for everyone so there is no way i would waste my time on an abusive relationship. There are people out there who will care about you and will actually treat you like you deserve to be treated.
ReplyDeleteI would not be able to stay in a absive relationship, espcially if I was expecting a baby. Although it would be hard to raise the child without a father I wouild rather have that then a bad enviroment. I would allow the father to be about of the childs life but not mine.I feel this would be the best situaion for me and the child.
ReplyDeleteIf I was in an abusive relationship I would forget them and be out of there so fast. In my mind it is not right for anyone to hurt anyone else physically. If the me and my wife had kids I would fight for custidy of them and I would not let them see there mother because who knows what she would do to the kids.
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